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7 Great Tips for Improving Your Sex Life

First of all, the term “great sex” is totally subjective. What I considered great sex or a fantastic lover to me many years ago does not even come close in measuring up to subsequent sexual experiences. I didn’t know what I was missing as I had nothing better to compare it to at the time. Lucky for me it has become progressively better and I’ve learned so much about my own sexuality and relationships over the years. Also, I have learned a lot of terrific tips from working with many other couples in facilitating relationship counseling. In particular, I’ve gained many insights about women who have certain hang-ups with sexual intimacy.

Many women remain remarkably confused about what great sex is and how to have it. Sometimes they are shadowed by self-doubt, and clouded by sexual myths and misperceptions. Often women tend to get in their own way of being able to experience greater sexual pleasure and more intimate relationships. They seem to self-sabotage opportunities for real intimacy with their own insecurities. That brings us to the first and most important sex tip:

1: Do not compare yourself to other women.

The Extraordinary and Enigmatic G-Spot

What is this mysterious ‘G-Spot’ we’ve been hearing about, and how exactly can it help women to experience more pleasure than we’ve ever thought possible? For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for the female orgasm, and with that we do celebrate the all-mighty clitoris as the epicenter of sexual bliss. But think of the clitoris as the tip of the iceberg. On the other side of the clitoris, deep within the vaginal chamber is the extraordinary and enigmatic G-spot.

Anatomically it may be complicated to substantiate, as the G-spot remains latent until properly stimulated. However when aroused, this astounding physical anomaly can produce deeper full-body orgasms that feel much more intense and expansive. The G-spot is located 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on the anterior wall. It’s on the other side of the clitoris, which I believe are somehow connected. If you (or your partner) were to extend your thumb and middle finger, placing your thumb on the clitoris and middle finger deep inside and gently press together, this is where you’ll find the magic connection. When both the clitoris and G-spot are stimulated simultaneously, the energy flowing between them generates such a strong electric charge, causing your body to writhe uncontrollably while experiencing this high frequency of inherent life-force energy surging through every cell of your being.