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Avoiding the Rut of Boring Relationships
A standard routine is often a good thing, as a familiar schedule regulates activities, tasks and responsibilities, as well as instills discipline and organization. However the same old routine in your relationships and especially with intimacy may become a bit boring after a while. It is important to keep it fresh with unique experiences to add richness, excitement and variety to your partnerships and sex lives. Sometimes couples fall into a repetitive program that seems like they’re reliving the same habitual scene every day like a sitcom rerun.
Far too often couples get stuck in a rut of always doing the same ol’ thing, never having anything new and interesting to talk about. They always eat at the same restaurant, walk their dog on the exact same route, maintain the same boring schedule, and have sex the exact same way every time (if at all). Where’s all the fun and the excitement?
Shhhhhh… Keeping it Quiet in the Bedroom
How do we deal with keeping it quiet in the bedroom when we co-habitat with roommates, children or house guests? It can be extremely awkward listening to a family member or friend scream and moan as they enjoy a wild sexual escapade in the next room. It can be even more embarrassing to be that unruly couple producing audible substantiation during sex. Sometimes when we’re caught up in the heat of the moment, it’s hard to keep quiet – especially when we’re used to freely expressing our ecstatic bliss during love-making.
We should not have to compromise our sex-lives just because we’re sharing space with others. Sustaining your romance and intimate connection with your partner is essential for maintaining passion and harmony in the home. It can be more uncomfortable to have to contend with marital discord than to witness an overt expression of sexual attraction – even if it causes others to snicker and roll their eyes. Those around us, especially our children and relatives will appreciate observing genuine love and affection rather than conflict and tension. After all, they just want us to be happy – and what could make us happier than great sex?
What Women Want
For women, sex is much more than just a mechanical biological activity. We want an extraordinary holistic experience with an attentive, perceptive and expressive partner who is willing to delve into the depths of our soul, sharing absolute bliss in divine union. Is that too much to ask?
Granted, that’s a pretty tall order to fill for the average man who gets an erection from a split-second glance at a quasi-sexy image and then goes through a nearly-automated sequence of simple physical motions which culminates in ejaculation. Women are different. More complex. We need various forms of physical stimulation as well as energetic and emotional connection. We want them to make love to our minds, first. We wish to feel a sense of recognition, value and appreciation. If men only knew how much better their sex lives could be with an empowered woman who feels confident, sexy and passionate, then they would certainly be willing to consider what women truly want in bed. Guess what, ladies – it’s up to us to lead the way.
